I do know that this topic has literally been overflogged but this is not a post on ways to spot a cheater or any such thing, this is very personal to me because i am in a relationship and these things have a way of popping up when you least expect it.
You know that akward moment when a harmless call from an old friend comes into your phone and you innocently pick up and gist away not knowing that your partner is fuming away and as soon as you hang up, "who was that" is the next question that hits you and you launch into an explanation wondering in your heart what the problem really is?
I do know that trust has a huge role to play in every relationship if not you can only go that far, afterall what is the essence of being with someone you don't trust but that is a topic for another day.
Now to the main issue, have you been wrongly accused of cheating in your relationship even when you know that you haven't and will never do and all explanation fell on deaf ears? Besides trust, what else do you think is responsible for this and how did you overcome it?
Please feel free to share your stories here and your comments are really apreciated.
Stay blessed.
Most times men just derive pleasure in accusing dia wifeys or girlfriends oo, they think that just because dey r doing it means that you are 2,what else can one do than to keep explaining.
ReplyDeleteNB laureen I think ur doing a good job but pls put up more posts o, so I can have a reason to come to this blog..
Ok patty, I'm trying..will improve, thanks for stopping by
ReplyDeleteTrust is essential in every relationship Howbeit some men will always suspect dia women whether or not you are cheating jst cos its in dia nature to be protective of dia spouses or partners but most often they take it to the extreme.
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